Start your life together on the right financial foot

Ashleigh Peltz • September 2, 2022

Before you say ‘I do’, talk about your finances with your partner.

Not getting married, but in a relationship? See  relationships and money  for useful tips.

If COVID-19 has impacted your wedding plans, the ACCC’s explains  your rights when it comes to cancellations and refunds.

Manage the wedding whirlwind

The average Australian wedding costs $36,000. According to a Moneysmart survey, 82% of couples dipped into their savings to pay for their wedding. Another 60% got a loan and 18% used their credit card.

Common wedding costs include:

  • venue
  • food and alcohol
  • ceremony and rings
  • photography
  • entertainment
  • clothing and accessories
  • flowers
  • cars, hair, makeup
  • wedding night accommodation

To stay on top of costs:

  • Decide what you can comfortably afford to spend and stick to it.
  • Break down the costs and work out what you need to spend on each item. Then ask yourself: do I need it? Will it make a difference to the day?
  • Do your research and shop around for a better deal — always negotiate.
  • Check if you can DIY or get a friend to help with flowers, photography or catering.
  • Check online stores. For things like furniture and glassware, you may be better off buying rather than renting, and then on-selling afterwards.

The more you pay up-front, the less likely it is that you’ll get into debt.

Save for your big day

Once you’ve got an idea of how much you can afford to spend on your wedding, work out how much you’ll need to save to pay for it.

The sooner you start and the more you save, the less likely you’ll get into debt.

Work out how much you’ll need to save each week in the lead-up to the wedding.

Opening a separate, high-interest  savings account  or a term deposit is a good way to save. A separate account means you’ll be less tempted to use the money for other things.

For saving tips, see  simple ways to save money.

Get on the same (financial) page

Talk about spending habits, debts and financial responsibilities with your partner. Doing this before you get married can help you manage your money day to day.

Also sit down and work out your financial goals. Be clear about what you want and when, so you can work together to get there.

Do a budget (together)

Creating a budget might not sound romantic, but it will give you a clear picture of your regular expenses.

It’s also a great way to help you reach your shared savings goals, including your wedding and honeymoon.

Work out your monthly expenses and see where you can save.

Work out how you’ll pay for things

If the two of you have different saving and spending habits, or earn different incomes, work out how to manage your money. Decide whether you want a joint bank account, separate accounts, or both.

Getting a  joint bank account  can make it easier to share your money and pay bills. However, you’re both responsible for making sure your expenses are covered.

Some people have separate bank accounts rather than a joint account. Then they work out who is responsible for different bills and payments. Or they transfer a set amount each payday into a joint account to cover shared bills.

Every couple is different, so talk to each other about what you think will work best for you.

For more tips, see  handling money in a relationship.

Understand the legal changes

Marriage is a legal agreement, so you’ll need to review or update your legal and financial documents.

Update or do your will

Getting married cancels your will (unless your will clearly shows that you were planning the marriage). See our tips on  wills and powers of attorney.

Check your insurance

Update your insurance policies to reflect your new status as a married couple. This is particularly important for  life insurance.

Update your super

You may want to change your beneficiary details, and look at how you can  grow your super together.

Change your personal details

If you take your spouse’s surname, you’ll need to let the Australian Taxation Office know. You may also need to change it on other documents, such as bank accounts and bills.

Source:
Reproduced with the permission of ASIC’s MoneySmart Team. This article was originally published at 
https://moneysmart.gov.au/getting-married

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By Nikki Ashurst • November 2, 2026
Many Australians don't know how their super fund has performed or what it invests in. Are you one of them? Here's what to check and why it matters. Do you know how your super fund performed over the last two years? Many Australians don’t and are working towards their financial future without fully understanding one of their most important assets and without a clear plan for how their super may support them in retirement. That's not surprising, as many people view super as something that should run quietly in the background while they're busy with careers, families and everything else that life throws at them. But when you’re not sure what’s happening behind your balance, it’s harder to know whether you’re on track, whether your current approach reflects your goals or what opportunities might be available to help you make the most of what you’ve built so far. 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Subject to law, Capstone Financial Planning nor their directors, employees or authorised representatives gives any representation or warranty as to the reliability, accuracy or completeness of the information; or accepts any responsibility for any person acting, or refraining from acting, on the basis of the information contained in this document. Principal Wealth Management Pty Ltd trading as BMO Financial Solutions ABN 53 109 336 601 is a Corporate Authorised Representative (CAR 277821) of Capstone Financial Planning Pty Ltd ABN 24 093 733 969 Australian Financial Services Licence (AFSL) No. 223135.
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